Intr-adevar, reprizele de plans nu sunt ceva placut de ascultat insa este foarte important sa nu le catalogam ca pe ceva negativ, sau rau, avand in vedere ca este o forma de comunicare, in special pentru bebelusi.
Baieteii si fetitele nu sunt atat de diferiti cand vine vorba despre sfiala, teama, furie, tristete sau fericire. Astfel ca baietii si fetitele nu sunt diferiti nici cand plang, ce este diferit insa, este reactia celor din jur.
De exemplu, baieteii in general sunt mustrati atunci cand plang sau cand isi manifesta tristetea, insa adevarul, este ca inevitabil, si baietii sunt tristi si plang.
Parintii isi invata adesea baietii ca tristetea si lacrimile sunt doar pentru fetite si cand vor sa ii opreasca din plans le spun „numai fetiele plang, ce tu esti fetita?” sau „fii barbat!”.
In acest fel le sunt modelate emotiile si trasate ideile despre cum sunt emotiile si cum trebuie exprimate. Astfel ca baietii sunt invatati ca nu este in regula sa fie suparati si ca exprimarea supararii prin plans nu este acceptabila.
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