„Mă cheamă Cristi, am 20 de ani şi sunt virgin. Zilele trecute am avut şansa să scap de acest lucru, dar nu am reuşit, pentru că m-am excitat foarte tare şi am ejaculat prea repede. Ce pot să fac? Sufăr că nu am reuşit nimic. Masturbarea m-ar ajuta să rezist sau îmi face mai rău?”
Dragă Cristi, cred că pe tine te macină, de fapt, felul în care te priveşte partenera ta. Pe lângă complexele de inferioritate pe care ţi le-a creat situaţia menţionată în scrisoare, cel mai tare te doare că ea te poate percepe acum ca pe un neputincios, iar acest lucru îţi pune în pericol relaţia. Masturbarea nu-ţi poate face rău, dar nici nu este o soluţie salvatoare. Eu zic să nu pleci de la premisa că şi data viitoare când vei ajunge în pat cu iubita vei ejacula precoce, pentru că e posibil să fi fost doar un episod izolat. Gândeşte pozitiv, pentru că tocmai teama că vei da greş din nou ţi-ar putea periclita performanţa sexuală. Ţine minte: când pleacă la vânătoare, vânătorii nu au întotdeauna certitudinea că vor şi reuşi să prindă ceva, dar asta nu înseamnă că nu mai merg în căutarea prăzii sau nu trăiesc plăcerea de a vâna.
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